Code of Conduct

Motor City Jacks (“MCJ”) is a private club. As a result we require all members, prospective members and visitors  to read, understand and adhere to these rules. This ensures we create a safe and equitable environment socially and physically for all club hosted events and communications. 

The following is a non-exhaustive list of permitted and prohibited behaviors of members and non-members participating in Motor City Jacks events and communications. If you have a question, comment or concern regarding our code of conduct please contact our leadership team @ MotorCityJacks@gmail.com

Identification

We will check identification upon arrival for anyone that appears under the age of 30. (Participants at any event must be 21 years of age or older)

Permitted Play

Motor City Jacks is a Masturbation Club. As a result, we limit sexual activity to masturbation and mutual masturbation only. 

  • Masturbation including consensual mutual masturbation, erotic and friendly touch of another’s body, including massage
  • Exhibitionism – Sexual gratification through displaying one’s genitals to others
  • Voyeurism -Sexual gratification from watching others naked or participating in sexual activity
  • Frottage – The consensual rubbing of one’s body against another including penis to penis
  • Oral contact – The consensual kissing, licking, nipple nibbling, etc. strictly above the waist
  • Ejaculation – Participants are encouraged to ejaculate on themselves or on a provided paper towel. Each participant is responsible to clean up after themselves once they have ejaculated. Explicit consent is required to ejaculate on others and requires a verbal warning prior to ejaculation. Participants should avoid getting semen on the face, rectum, mouth or any other opening on their own or other’s body.
  • Talking – Participants are asked to limit talking to a minimum. Excessive chatter is discouraged in the play space. When speaking use a whispered tone. Sexually explicit talk is welcome as long as it is not disruptive or distracting to fellow participants

Wristbands

Wristbands will be available to all attendees of Motor City Jacks event. 

  • A red band worn at any event is a signal that the participant does not to be touched intimately without explicit invitation. – This personal boundary must be 100% honored by every member at all times.
  • A white wristband means that the member may be approached for consensual touching

Any member may change to a different color wristband at any time during a MCJ Event. Regardless of Wristband color, consent is necessary for any touching.

Prohibited Play

The following conduct is Not Allowed. Participating in such activities will result in removal from an event and potential dismissal/ban from the club. 

  • Penetration – Whether self inflicted or by another, no body parts or objects shall go inside your body or that of another.
  • Anal contact (including self-stimulation)
  • Docking (stretched foreskin over the head of another’s penis))
  • Oral contact below the waist
  • Activity conducted without mutual consent
  • Aggressive or prolonged urethra play (including sounding)
  • Violence (including threats of violence) is strictly prohibited and will result in permanent ban.

Dress Code

When attending an event participants are encouraged to remove their clothing and place it in provided storage. 

  • Nudity is encouraged but not required. 
  • Those not comfortable with nudity are encouraged to strip down to a single article of underwear or t-shirt. 
  • Fetish gear is permitted.
  • Remove any Jewelry that may cut or tear skin.

Mutual Respect & Explicit Consent

Remember that each member is in charge of their own body. 

  • Always ask before you touch someone who has not provided explicit consent
  • Say “no” if you need to
  • Take “no” for an answer – Never press the issue

We treat each other with mutual respect and care, as we would a brother. Disrespect will not be tolerated and such behavior will result in removal from an event and/or dismissal/ban from the club.

Cellphone/Video Recording Device Use

Cellphones and any other recording devices are strictly prohibited within the play space. Violation of this policy will result in immediate dismissal from an event, termination of membership and permanent ban from the club.

Confidentiality, Discretion & Anonymity

We ask that each guest/member keep all Motor City Jacks information confidential. We encourage you to share about the group in general to friends and other prospective participants. However, specific information, especially where we host events should not be shared. For any questions you receive, direct individuals to our website or email address.

We respect the discretion, confidentiality and anonymity of all members and prospective members and require that all participants and members do the same. Never disclose any member’s identity to anyone.

Violation of any guest or member’s identity is grounds for termination of membership and permanent ban from the club and related activities. An individual member may identify themselves in forum discussions, through social media or other platform. We may highlight those members with their consent. 

Health & Safety

Do not attend a Motor City Jacks event if you have or suspect that you may have a viral, bacterial or other infectious disease that could be spread to other members in the course of an event. This includes:

  • COVID-19
  • Common Colds and Flu
  • Active Herpes outbreaks or other STIs commuted through skin-to-skin contact
  • Staph infections

HIV is NOT considered communicable in the context of club activities. HIV-Positive men are welcome to join the club and participate in events in accordance with our rules, as there is no evidence of transmission of the virus through mutual masturbation.

Substance Use

Participants in Motor City Jacks events shall not attend under the use of illegal substances or abuse of legal ones. Reasonable consumption of alcohol is permitted at events where alcohol is available for purchase. Unruly behavior associated with being intoxicated from excessive consumption of alcohol or legal/illegal drugs will result in termination of membership, ban and removal from the event.

Use of poppers is allowed at Motor City Jacks events. This is subject to change based on venue where an MCJ event is held.

Personal Hygiene

Participants in Motor City Jacks events are expected to maintain good hygiene. This means being bathed when you attend a MCJ event. 

Your body and hands need to be washed, teeth brushed, and fingernails trimmed short and smooth.Take care of bad breath and excessive body odor before entering the play space. Avoid excessive use of cologne. Antibacterial soap and hand sanitizer will be made available at all events and all participants are encouraged to use them before, during and after participating in the event.

Inherent Risk

Motor City Jacks is committed to promoting a safe, respectful, and enjoyable environment for all participants. However, it is important to understand that participation in any physical or recreational activities, whether through our events, programs, or other initiatives, carries inherent risks. By engaging in these activities, you acknowledge and assume responsibility for these risks, including but not limited to physical injury, illness, or property damage.

Motor City Jacks and its affiliates are not liable for any injury, loss, or damage arising from participation in any activities associated with our organization. We strongly encourage participants to assess their own fitness and skill levels before engaging in any activity and to seek medical or professional advice if necessary. All participants are expected to abide by the guidelines set forth in our Code of Conduct to minimize risks and ensure a positive experience for all.

By continuing to participate in our programs and events, you agree to hold Motor City Jacks harmless and waive any claims or liability associated with the inherent risks of participation.